• CrazM13@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    “It’s not your fault, but it is your problem.”

    I honestly love and repeat this line way too much

    Just because you weren’t the cause doesn’t mean it isn’t something you need to worry about/fix. I learned this one from my high school English teacher when a student was late and tried to get out of it by blaming traffic lol. The traffic was not their fault, but it ended up being their problem.

  • Crewman@sopuli.xyz
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    2 months ago

    It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness, that is life.

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    2 months ago

    It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it

    Unfortunately, too many people have been trained to reject ideas or thoughts without first thinking them through. Many simply react to whatever word, expression, or concept triggers them without giving the rest a second thought. For example a brilliant idea can be presented online, but if one word is out of place, the usage of that word will debated instead of the idea.

  • ryathal@sh.itjust.works
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    If you make yourself irreplaceable you can’t get promoted.
    Everyone always has a plan until they get punched in the face.

  • I Cast Fist@programming.dev
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    Making fun of the weak (poor, minorities, etc) is easy because they can’t fight back, that’s why the best comedy is the one that upsets the powerful.

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    Enjoy this thought poison that’s been with me for a long time:

    WARNING: THOUGHT POISON

    It’s a bitter truth that, in the end, your intentions don’t matter. Neither does your pain, your past, or the reasons behind what you did. No one cares about the context or the quiet wars you fought alone. All that remains is how others saw you. Their perception becomes your truth—your legacy—no matter how far it is from who you really were—or tried to be.

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    I don’t think it’s really profound but ‘perception is reality’. How a person perceives something is what they think is true and real, even if it isn’t.

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    This has influenced my entire idea of spending money:

    “The reason that the rich were so rich, Vimes reasoned, was because they managed to spend less money.

    Take boots, for example. He earned thirty-eight dollars a month plus allowances. A really good pair of leather boots cost fifty dollars. But an affordable pair of boots, which were sort of OK for a season or two and then leaked like hell when the cardboard gave out, cost about ten dollars. Those were the kind of boots Vimes always bought, and wore until the soles were so thin that he could tell where he was in Ankh-Morpork on a foggy night by the feel of the cobbles.

    But the thing was that good boots lasted for years and years. A man who could afford fifty dollars had a pair of boots that’d still be keeping his feet dry in ten years’ time, while the poor man who could only afford cheap boots would have spent a hundred dollars on boots in the same time and would still have wet feet.

    This was the Captain Samuel Vimes ‘Boots’ theory of socioeconomic unfairness.”

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        Buying less and buying for life as a priority when choosing purchases. It’s had a knock on effect thst I try to buy bespoke from small artisans as they tend to be higher quality and it supports small businesses rather than megacorps.

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    From “The Good Place”: If soulmates do exist, they’re not found. They’re made.

    I believe Seth MacFarlane said something similar in “The Orville”.

    A great reminder from two great shows.

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      Utterly backwards.

      This thinking actually leads to Elon Musk worship and the dehumanization (and eventual massacre) of poor people.

      This is what the most depraved sociopaths believe. They constantly repeat this lie to themselves to excuse themselves for utterly monstrous deeds.