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RagingHungryPanda@lemm.eeto Fediverse@lemmy.world•Fediverse.com is available for saleEnglish2·11 days agoyou’d probably be better off setting up your own domain server and trying to get that working
RagingHungryPanda@lemm.eeto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•I avoid approaching women in public because I believe it's inappropriate. My parents say that it's a necessary skill. Who is right?54·12 days agoHave times changed? Yes. Do you need to approach women? Yes. Don’t hide behind a screen. Get out there and talk with women.
Talking with people is not disrespectful. God, what a sad society is that?
There’s a saying that goes something like, “Enlarge your territory, linger in public, walk through open doors.” That’s a good start. Get out of the house and linger in public places. Strike up conversations and be a social animal. Talk with everyone: men, women, young, old - get that practice in. If you talk with everyone, then you’re not putting as much pressure on yourself. Don’t get attached to an outcome, but challenge yourself to talk to people.
I think you’re making excuses. I strike conversations with strangers all the time, including women. I go dancing for swing, salsa, bachata. You wanna see something that challenges your beliefs on interactions between men and women? Go watch Bachata.
But anyway. Social skills are a skill and they need to be worked. Put yourself out there and get rejected. (You’ll learn it’s not so bad).
RagingHungryPanda@lemm.eeto Fediverse@lemmy.world•Why does Lemmy use "@" instead of ":" like Matrix does?English14·12 days agoThat’s technically a subdomain and the same reason email went with @
RagingHungryPanda@lemm.eeto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•What webapps do you selfhost that aren't media/game servers?English3·14 days agoThat’s TrueNas. It can run docker compose files so I’m abusing the crap out of what it’s supposed to do haha.
RagingHungryPanda@lemm.eeto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•What webapps do you selfhost that aren't media/game servers?English3·14 days agoYeah, just me and my family for now. I have gotten a lot of knowledge setting stuff up and hope to eventually get some VPSs set up for some public Lemmy, pixelfed, and maybe mastodon instances for digital nomads and expats.
RagingHungryPanda@lemm.eeto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•What webapps do you selfhost that aren't media/game servers?English2·14 days agoEh, it’s a document viewer. I figured they’re referring to Plex and jellyfin when they say media.
RagingHungryPanda@lemm.eeto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•What webapps do you selfhost that aren't media/game servers?English4·14 days agoAll these. I just added calibre web and may phase out Kavita.
Elena Rossini (@[email protected]) is a journalist who’s gotten into the fediverse and self hosting with Yuno Host. She’s documented it on her blog. It’s worked out really well for her.
RagingHungryPanda@lemm.eeto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Can you recommend history podcasts (or similar)?71·8 days agoHardcore history is one of my favorites.
The Blow back Podcast is a great one that goes into detail of the US doing fucked up evil shit around the world. Each season is a different country and they have Afghanistan, Cuba, North Korea, and Iraq.
https://youtu.be/4d0Q64SQujY
I’m actually watching a video about that, complete with studies and everything.