Saying “don’t ever express your sexual or romantic interest in women, just be their friend and eventually they’ll come around”

Where did I say that?

I must admit my geography is not that good. Chicago is in the region of the big lakes(idk the proper english name), if I recall well. Is it also famously flat?

If you live far from the tropiques like I do, that is just the sun. The sun is walking you up for behind your curtain. You body know is day know. It has forgot you’re only sleeping since 4 hours.

Basically, you’re right and thank you for acting that way. Your parents are wrong.

This could depend where you are from. I’m from France and a bit of chit-chat with a stranger is not a bad thing to me. But if a male stranger try a bit too hard to stir up a conversation, I would feel ackward, mostly because I’ll “fear” they are trying to hit on me, which is not okay for a stranger to do out of nowhere.

But at the same time if you try to make friend with more women, maybe one day, you’ll find a partner in one of them. If you genuinly try to make connection with a woman in a non-sexual and non-romantical way and after sometime, you feel like having another kind of relation, it is totally different and not creepy at all.